Spiritual rights of wives

One of the best beyans ever heard. May Allah Ta'ala give jaza e khair to HeDret saheb. The last words by HeDret Ahmed Kabir rifai were amazing, and this is the main point that I overlook when it comes to tarbiyat of children.

Allhamdulillah bayan was very fruitful and full of islah. Clearly mentioned your relationship with your wife that is he your best friend or servent

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته HeDret Wala
The beyan was much needed for the betterment of a family as a whole. The most important point HeDret Wala mentioned was the daily taleem of few books at home. We’ve been trying to be regular and I’ve seen that it has very quick and positive effect. Whatever we read, it sticks to my son’s mind and he naturally memorizes it ماشاءالله. I and my husband also feel very motivated to follow what we read and feel really ashamed at our condition after we read the ahadith and HeDret thanvi’s books. And the second most important part was for parents’ correcting themselves so that children adapt it automatically -مشک میں پانی نہ ہو تو لوٹے میں کہاں سے آوے-. It’s been three days since the beyan and I’ve seen major changes in my son because I and my husband have been behaving really well. May Allah tala make us mutteqi and May Allah tala reward HeDret Wala beyond measure. جزاك الله خير

Assalam o Alaikum.. har ik byan k trhan ye b nihayat mufeed tha aur waqai Me apne such kaha hai k jab hm baray khud thek hon gy tu bacho k trbyat kr sakain gy, hat waqt dil isi me pareshan rehta HAI k abhi tu pehle razela e nafs ka ilaj chal raha hai na janay kab Apna aap thek ho ga aur kab phr bacho k trbyat aain Quran o sunna k mutabiq kar sakain?
Apki Israaf wali baat bht dil ko lagi aur waqai me ye chez ab hmaray mashray aur tehzeb me itni aa gai hai k kisi ko keh b do k aglay k ghar aisy hi chalay jaty hain Tu aisy daikha jata hai jesy hmne koi gumah k bat keh Di ho. Allah hm sab ko Quran o Sunnah p amal krne wala bana dai ameen sum ameen...
Aik nakara

مشک میں ہی نہ ہو تو لوٹے میں کہاں سے آئے سن کر اپنی حالت سامنے آ گئ

میرے دل کو لگتاہے بیان۔۔۔بہت اچھا۔۔۔ماشااللہ

It is very beneficial...and reminds me of what should be and where I am....